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if you have been reading from wojia.de, you should have read tzeying's latest accident. Being scolded and mistreated is definitely not a real nice experience. Especially when you are not being treated fairly, it is just that "arrggghh" feeling in you that you can just blast it out immediately.

i was at the neighbour's place this morning. Reason? being stupid and honest and just plain polite. My principal is: you must explain yourself in order to clarify the situation, that everyone is sure and know what happened and later we all can move on. Well, as expected, she is still fury and unwilling to listen. So i manage to squeeze some words thru before she got a phone call and "gently" slam her door. done, my job is accomplished. If she refuse to listen and accept people's unintentional mistake, i don't care. All i care is whether did i admit what i should admit, and whether i stood out for my right. She can continue hating us or misunderstand us, that is her issue then.

I noticed some sense of insecurity and sceptism in her. She don't seemed to trust people. She seemed to like to make up own assumption, and assume she is 100% right (well, i might be doing the same as i say this). There is no chance for some common sense or logical thinking. It is as if that we here in the house are stupid, and cannot even think properly. I wonder whether she actually know who we are, and what we are capable of ;) at least i know i can cook better wan tan than she would!

well i am glad i did what i can, and i am glad my wife is strong to face unreasonable people. i am more than glad that our neighbour is nice and this lady is not  at the same floor as we do (imagine all the possible conflicts! duh!). i am glad this place do respect people's right, and i know exactly what i could/should do when things really screw up in future. It is definitely not end of the world (it was just due to drying cloths!) so i should again add such experience to my "1000 ways to deal with suckywonderful people" book.

do you sometimes cannot control your temper when someone crosses your line? Would you give them second chance to explain and try again? We have been more and more self-centered in this age, and often there is only room for me and me. This somehow will slowly destroy your relationships with others. Without realising, you might just loose friends and family one day soon. Do remember, love your neighbour as yourself is not easy but is the basic truth about how we should treat others.

and yeah, weekend is coming  great